5 Things Our Judgments of Others Say About Us
“We do not see things as they are, we see them as we are,” Anaïs Nin famously wrote. Psychological research aligns well with this idea, especially when it comes to social judgment. The way we evaluate others is not just a function of their objective characteristics; it’s also a reflection of our vantage point, which is shaped by our life experiences, goals, and values, as well as our hidden desires and fears. The things we criticize and praise most in others tell us not only about them but about us, sometimes in surprising ways. Here are five research findings that shed light on the connection between social judgment and the self. 1. If you tend to see people through rose-colored glasses… ...you might be high in agreeableness , a personality trait characterized by warmth, kindness, and empathy . Perhaps not surprisingly, agreeable people are more likely to view others positively, focusing on their good qualities and giving them the benefit of the doubt when they behave bad...